How to peoples Make Miserable Decisions..!

 If you've ever been around someone who is constantly miserable, you will find that you have a work strategy to make their experience unpleasant for them.

This article will give you some explanations why they use a strategy that makes them miserable, how that process works, and if this describes you, why you might want to change. It will also describe what you will have to sacrifice if you no longer want to be miserable.

Also, if the benefits of being unhappy are enough, you will learn to keep making decisions and to make decisions that contribute to your unhappiness.

The benefits of misery.

It's hard to believe that feeling bad has benefits, but the fact is that there are. Some of these benefits include:

* Uniqueness. If you are in pain, you can at least see yourself as special and even persecuted.

* Justice. If you are unhappy about something that is out of your control, you can hold it up like a banner and proclaim that you must be right to have such an enemy.

* To blame. As long as your suffering is something external to you, then you can blame him for all your problems. This releases the burden of self-reflection and change.

* Familiarity. Sometimes misery is the only thing that seems familiar. Getting rid of it would mean that jumping in is completely uncharted territory and it could mean new things about you that you've never considered before.

* Misery is easy. Very few people go through life and are naturally happy. Those who have found a strategy that often works for them after much effort. It takes some work to change one's thought process.

How to make decisions that make you feel miserable.

* Ask yourself a series of miserable questions like

"What could go wrong today?"

"What do I have to feel guilty about?"

"Why do bad things always happen to me?"

"Why do I feel so bad?"

* Setting vague and unreasonable expectations and goals.

By making a goal or an expectation unreasonable, you will make it impossible to achieve. By making them lazy, you will never know exactly if you make them and you can always say "No, that's not what I meant".

* Think of the worst first.

For any event that occurs, you have a million ways to think about it. Go for the worst possible interpretation. For example, if you walk into a store and there are teenagers outside laughing and smoking cigarettes, they are probably laughing at you.

* Hold on to the wounds of the past.

Progress can easily be inhibited when you use past pain or slow it down. These can take the form of insisting on why your life has been so terrible or even saying that we've never done it that way before. Why start now?

Why you might want to stop feeling miserable.

* Without a doubt, poverty is the main cause of suicide. If you want to live, you want to get rid of your misery.

* You will have more power (much, much more) and control over your life if you stop all processes that produce misery and take responsibility for your life.

How to stop making miserable decisions.

* Set reasonable goals using the S.M.A.R.T. goal process. If you don't know what this is, do a Google search.

* Know when your emotions are trying to sway beyond your goals and work to keep your focus.

* Accept to take responsibility for your life and especially your emotions. It is very hard but very rewarding work.

What you'll have to give up when you stop making miserable decisions.

* You will have to give up the belief that your suffering makes you unique. The fact is, suffering is normal and boring for most people. We have all experienced it and there is little you can say about your suffering that will make us think about you for long. The exceptional and unique is someone who makes no excuses in his life and decides to stand out and feel joy AS AN OPTION.

* You will have to renounce guilt. This means not blaming anyone or anything. It even means to stop blaming yourself.

* You will have to give up fear and shyness. Only daring and courage can overcome an old habit of misery.

Final note.

While all of this may seem different and cold, it is important to note that this is not an essay by which you should judge other people, but only yourself. Bad things happen to good people, and it's a good idea to help them when possible. On the other hand, if you come across someone who is persistent and habitually miserable, it's generally a good idea to steer clear of them so they don't infect you with their misery, and trust me, they can do it more easily than you. think.